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3 Unexpected Ways Self Help Books Can Change Your Life

Self help books are some of the most popular titles on the market today, but many people only buy them out of curiosity or to impress other people they know. However, the truth is that these books can actually have a significant impact on your life when you read them and use their lessons correctly! If you’re interested in improving yourself, read this guide about how self help books can change your life for the better and see if it’s something you want to do with your own life.


1) Learn to be empathetic

When we walk into a room, pay attention to who is left out and who is feeling left out. If you're meeting someone for coffee or lunch, don't assume they're just going to show up at that place; if they have a more difficult time with mobility, reach out and offer suggestions of places nearby that are easier to get to. A great way to gain skills in empathy is by reaching out to someone who is struggling through something similar. For example, if you know a woman going through divorce, talk with her about it—not only will she likely appreciate your interest and sympathy but you'll also find it brings new perspective on your own troubles.


2) Accept Yourself

One of life’s golden rules is self-acceptance—however, it’s still a tough one to follow. Luckily, there are ways to make it easier. For example, do you ever compare yourself to others? Are you quick to make assumptions about someone based on their appearance or accomplishments? Next time that happens, stop and recognize it as a natural human tendency that isn’t always helpful. Recognizing these moments when they happen can be a key component in accepting yourself and your body for who they are now, instead of striving for perfection. A great place to start is by reading The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown; she has several other books that could help you improve your self-acceptance skills too!


3) Find Meaning in every situation

Every situation, no matter how bad it may seem in that moment, can be turned into something good. Making a list of three benefits to a difficult situation is an easy way to find positivity when you’re surrounded by negative influences. This is why many self-help books emphasize finding meaning in every moment. Having trouble seeing things from a positive perspective? Take note of how you feel at that very moment; there's always someone out there who has it worse than you and your problems are just a small blip on their radar. Thinking about others will help make you realize what really matters most in life and inspire you to focus on being happy instead of dwelling on your problems.


Conclusion

Now you can’t say that self-help books don’t work—I mean, they just helped you out with your grammar, didn’t they? If you still think that self-help books are as useless as many people say they are, I highly encourage you to try one. It might be a game changer for you. And if nothing else, it will improve your writing skills!


Sherlock Holmes

Private Detective, London